First, an apology. I've gotten a little lazy these last few months in that I've resorted to more JPEGs and less rigorous intellectual expression. Part of that is because honestly my life is in a state of constant flux and its easy and tempting to post a picture, make some blithe comment and move on. But I've been communicating with a friend as of late who who writes some of the most arresting prose in the blogoshpere and I realized that, like exercise, the more you do it the better you become. And I've had Asian men on my mind lately so it seemed apt to start here. Who can deny their sultry and demur disposition? Who can't say that at some point they've been possessed by the thought of living out every sexual fantasy (or frustration?) with a hot, Asian man? If you haven't you are dismissing at least 1/6th of the world's population. If you buy into the whole small dick stereotype (granted, there's truth in stereotypes) what are you left with? A handful of impossibly good-looking Caucasian clones to unfulfill your every fantasy plus a few men of color to round out your worldly palette? (Here's a stereotype: A lot of muscle guys make shitty lays.) I look at pictures of Asian men daily and find them to be beautiful and exotic. And I don't mean "exotic" in a condescending West-is-superior sort of way which isn't really true to begin with. I mean "exotic" in that every experience I've ever had with an Asian man, for ill or better, has always been sexually tantalizing. Experience has taught me that Asian men are more considerate lovers and much more in touch with the physical plane than most white guys can even dream about. Even the ones who write mind numbingly dull exploits about their sexual peccadilloes on blogs that are only read by aging, middle-class men with mortgages and dreams unfulfilled. There are a lot of good sites out there devoted to Eastern culture and even more that share all that Asian men have to offer. Take a minute and check them out. You might discover something wonderful you never even thought to consider.
Link doesn't work - but sounds interesting! Thanks for your very regular post - it's a daily read...
Posted by: David - Sydney | January 03, 2006 at 08:08 PM
This pic got me wet just by looking at it
;-)
Posted by: Brandon | January 04, 2006 at 06:55 AM
a) Every really great mind needs a rest now and then. So take a break, babe! You deserve it.
b) I'm an inveterate size queen. Yet, I freely admit that hung men can be terrible in bed. They somehow seem to believe that I should cum and squeal in delight just by seeing their half-hard penises. They appear to think that just by inserting themselves into my body that I should quiver in orgasmic ecstasy. Far from it. Indeed, it takes more skill, energy and style to wield a big cock than a medium-sized or small one.
Muscle, in my experience, is the same. It must inhibit rational thought.
c) The Asian men I've been with have been less exotic and more human than I ever thought possible. Every time I sleep with a Chinese, Thai, Laotian, Indonesian or Vietnamese man, I find myself uncovering new depths about myself and about them. Contrary to the stereotype shilled in racist Western culture or Uncle-Tom magazines like "OG," the first muscular Asian man I slept with did not have a "heart like a rose -- soft and fragile." Rather, he raped the living shit out of me and demanded more. The first Chinese man I ever slept with pulled out a slightly smaller cock...and then proceeded to teach me more about anal sex than I'd learned since the 9th grade. A supposedly "stoic" Vietnamese college student taught more more about passionate kissing and how to rim an ass like an eggbeater than any so-called "experienced" and "libertine" European-American. It's this incredible humanity about Asian men (a misnomer in itself, as they are not "Asian" but Chinese, Thai, Cambodian, Nepalese, Korean, etc.) that so deeply attracts me.
d) Shut up! I am not that good a writer! :) (But thanks for the kind words all the same!)
Posted by: Tim1965 | January 05, 2006 at 07:50 PM